cut off your nose to spite your face
To harm yourself out of anger while trying to hurt someone else, ending up in a worse position.
Example: Quitting the whole team just to upset the coach would be cutting off your nose to spite your face.

C222 words · Proficient
Body idioms for advanced, often literary description, with phrases like a bone of contention, keep a stiff upper lip and cheek by jowl.

To harm yourself out of anger while trying to hurt someone else, ending up in a worse position.
Example: Quitting the whole team just to upset the coach would be cutting off your nose to spite your face.

To relax completely and enjoy yourself without worrying about being proper or formal.
Example: After the exams, the students finally let their hair down at the party.

A subject that causes ongoing disagreement between people.
Example: Who does the dishes has always been a bone of contention in our house.

An action that feels like a sudden, hurtful insult or rejection.
Example: Being passed over for the promotion felt like a slap in the face.

A complaint or grievance that you want to raise with someone directly.
Example: I have a bone to pick with you about last night.

To stay out of trouble and behave well, avoiding anything illegal or dishonest.
Example: After his release, he promised to keep his nose clean.

To stay calm and hide your feelings, especially during a difficult or sad time.
Example: British soldiers were expected to keep a stiff upper lip.

To respond peacefully to unkind treatment instead of getting angry or seeking revenge.
Example: Instead of arguing back, she chose to turn the other cheek.

Young and without experience, still new to something.
Example: He's talented, but still a bit wet behind the ears.

To possess a natural talent for noticing or finding a particular kind of thing.
Example: She has a nose for a good business deal.

Firm control hidden behind a gentle manner.
Example: She ran the department with an iron hand in a velvet glove.

A view made unfair by bitterness or past experience.
Example: He reads every proposal with a jaundiced eye.

Everything you are strictly owed, demanded without mercy.
Example: The bank wanted a pound of flesh and got it.

To prepare yourself for something difficult.
Example: Time to gird your loins and open the post.

Arguing bitterly and constantly.
Example: The two departments were at each other's throats by March.

In spite of strong opposition or difficulty.
Example: The plan went ahead in the teeth of every objection raised.

Very quickly and in large amounts, usually of money.
Example: They were losing money hand over fist and still expanding.

Someone you can tell something to in confidence.
Example: Every office needs a safe pair of ears and rarely has one.

The principle that punishment should match the crime exactly.
Example: The policy was an eye for an eye and it satisfied nobody.

The ability not to be hurt by criticism.
Example: You need a thick skin to read the comments on anything.

Very close together.
Example: Warehouses and cottages stand cheek by jowl all along that road.

You want to do something but lack the physical strength.
Example: He signed up for the marathon, but the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak.
