Gerund or Infinitive: Remember, Forget, Stop and TryVerbs that change meaning with -ing or to

B1~7 min · 14 questions

Remember to Do or Remember Doing?

Most verbs take only one form after them: want to, enjoy -ing. With like, love and start, both forms mean almost the same. Remember, forget, stop and try take both forms too, but the meaning changes.

  • REMEMBER + TOA job still to do

    First you remember, then you lock it.

    Remember to lock the door.

  • REMEMBER + -INGA memory of something done

    First you lock it, then you remember.

    I remember locking the door.

With remember, forget, stop and try, the form after the verb changes the meaning.

TRY IT

  • Question 1

    "Did you remember blank the cat this morning?"

The forms

  • REMEMBER / FORGET + TO

    Sremember / forgetto V

    Don't forget to call your grandma tonight.

    A job still to do.

  • REMEMBER / FORGET + -ING

    Sremember / forgetV-ing

    I'll never forget seeing the sea for the first time.

    A memory. Forget + -ing usually comes with never.

  • STOP + -ING

    SstopV-ing

    I've stopped drinking coffee after 4 p.m.

    You don't do it any more.

  • STOP + TO

    Sstopto V

    On the way to Đà Lạt, we stopped to buy strawberries.

    You stop one thing so you can do another.

Worth memorisingTo looks forward. -ing looks back.

remember to lock = you will lock it · remember locking = you locked it

TRY IT

  • Question 1

    "We drove for three hours, then stopped blank lunch."

When to use them

  1. Before a trip

    Remember to text me when you get there.

    A parent says goodbye at the bus station.

  2. Old memories

    I still remember meeting my best friend on the first day of school.

    Telling friends a story from years ago.

  3. On a road trip

    We stopped to take photos at Hải Vân Pass.

    Describing a motorbike trip to Huế.

Try to Do or Try Doing?

Try to means make an effort: the action is hard. Try + -ing means test an idea: the action is easy, but will it work?

TRY + TOTRY + -ING
Meaningmake an efforttest an idea
ExampleI tried to open the window, but it was stuck.If the app doesn't work, try deleting it and installing it again.

TRY IT

  • Question 1

    "The soup is a bit boring. Try blank some lime juice."

Common mistakes

  • Incorrect:I stopped to smoke last year.

    Correct:I stopped smoking last year.

    Stopped to smoke means you stopped so you could smoke.

  • Incorrect:We stopped buying some water at a petrol station.

    Correct:We stopped to buy some water at a petrol station.

    You stopped the car to buy water.

  • Incorrect:Remember closing the windows when you leave.

    Correct:Remember to close the windows when you leave.

    This is a job still to do. Use to.

  • Incorrect:Sorry, I forgot bringing your book.

    Correct:Sorry, I forgot to bring your book.

    You forgot a job, so forget to.

  • Incorrect:I still remember to visit Huế with my grandparents when I was ten.

    Correct:I still remember visiting Huế with my grandparents when I was ten.

    A memory from childhood takes -ing.

Quick check · 5 questions

  1. Choose the correct form:

    Please remember to wear your seat belt.

    • A. to wear — Correct
    • B. wearing

    Answer: A. to wear

    The seat belt is not on yet. Use to wear.

  2. Choose the correct form:

    I clearly remember putting my keys on the table. So where are they?

    • A. putting — Correct
    • B. to put

    Answer: A. putting

    The keys went on the table first. Now you remember it.

  3. Choose the correct form:

    Ngọc stopped eating fast food because she wanted to lose weight.

    • A. eating — Correct
    • B. to eat

    Answer: A. eating

    Stopped to eat means she stopped something else to go and eat.

  4. Choose the correct form:

    Halfway up the mountain, we stopped to have a rest.

    • A. to have — Correct
    • B. having

    Answer: A. to have

    Stop + to: you stop one thing so you can do another.

  5. You suggest an idea for a friend to test. Choose the correct form:

    Can't sleep? Try taking a warm shower before bed and see if it helps.

    • A. taking — Correct
    • B. to take

    Answer: A. taking

    A shower is easy. The question is whether it helps.

See whether it really stuck.

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